From restrictions to rich wisdom: What does culture mean to you?
Culture. I recall not liking that word as a child – because for me it spoke of restrictions and rules. It dictated how to do things and what things would be unacceptable. It represented how I would be punished if I strayed from the “norm” and it kept me afraid. Especially when I learned about harmful cultural practices.
As I grew up, the concept of culture began to transform. It drew me to rich histories and beautiful, colourful artefacts. It showed up most importantly, in wisdom. I had an opportunity to see culture in a new light and started to discern what could be good about it.Then I started to travel and met culture face to face – this time, it was other cultures and I grappled with the clash of my culture and other cultures – especially when what I now experienced as other cultures did not match the negative narratives and perceptions that I had of others.
So what is this thing called culture? The Oxford Learners Dictionary (funny we consult it for this as well), states: “The customs and beliefs, art, way of life and social organisation of a particular country or group."And broadly as: "The integrated pattern of human knowledge, belief, and behaviour that depends upon the capacity for symbolic thought and social learning."Lederach (1995) defines culture as “The shared knowledge and schemes created by a set of people for perceiving, interpreting, expressing, and responding to the social realities around them.”
Simply put, culture is how an identity group lives. It is the set of norms and codes through which we express who we are and how we interact amongst ourselves and the world. It is what we revere and what we value. At home, in our communities, organisations, collectives etc.So what part does culture play in conflict and peace?
If I am what I believe, (my culture), then my perceptions of others are also driven by my own culture or what I can choose to be my culture. Is my culture open to others’ beliefs, values and opinions? Or do I consider my culture superior? If my very essence is closed to the potential of good in any other culture, how will I ever be able to listen with intent and not dismiss every other expression of belief and value system?More broadly, what value does my culture bring to the community? Any good? Could it open the doors for engagement and dialogue? Could it help us share beautiful things and wisdom woven into the tapestry of every culture? Could there be insights buried deep in our cultures that helps us thrive in peace as a global community?
When you have experienced multiculturalism and the beauty of diversity, you have a unique choice to make. You have been handed a privilege not many have, and what you do with it defines your personal culture; and what you pass on as a legacy. So what kind of culture will you craft for now and posterity?